“Dare Not To Swear!” — what a bold and courageous declarative statement.

Going against the norm, that’s always been my strong suit. I was in a car accident in 1982 when I was in high school. I had the perfect excuse to stay home and doing nothing for the rest of my life. Did I ever think I would become Ms. Wheelchair America 1997, earn a 4.00 GPA master’s degree graduate, and become the mother of a beautiful 9-year-old boy? You bet. I dreamed of this and more.

Not conforming and being your own, unique self is not without its challenges.

Family, friends and peers may want you to “go along with the crowd” by swearing to be cool. Unfortunately, swearing may be your way of fitting in and belonging.

Accept the challenge and “Dare Not To Swear!” Dreaming of becoming more than you are opens the world up to criticism.

People will tell you that you are “crazy” for dreaming. Don’t believe the critics. Believe in yourself and your dreams.

Don’t feel like you have to do something because everyone else is doing it.

It’s OK to be smart.

It’s OK to feel good about yourself — even if you don’t look like a movie star or super model.

It’s OK not to swear. Dare to be yourself.

Elaine Stefanowicz

Career and Transitions Manager

Tacoma Community College

Ms. Wheelchair America 1997