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    Articles by Sarah Smiley
    Sarah Smiley: GOP debates, crossroads in parenthood
    Sarah Smiley: GOP debates, crossroads in parenthood
    By Sarah Smiley • August 13, 2015 1:53 pm

    As we sat down to watch the first GOP debates between candidates vying to be the Republican presidential nominee, my 8-year-old son, Lindell, asked, “So, who are the bad people?”

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    Sarah Smiley
    Sarah Smiley: Are you a cool lake person...
    By Sarah Smiley • August 6, 2015 2:40 pm

    There are two kinds of people in this world: Those who like beaches, and those who prefer lakes. Well, actually, there are also those people who mouth the words of someone who is speaking to them (how do they do that?), and those who do not. But for the purpose of this column, you are either a lake person or beach person.

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    Sarah Smiley: Lessons not learned by playing Nintendo, phone games
    Sarah Smiley: Lessons not learned by playing Nintendo,...
    By Sarah Smiley • July 30, 2015 2:07 pm

    The logic of video games was pretty simple, and utterly false, when I was 12 years old and playing “Super Mario Bros.” on Nintendo. The “logic” began when the game cartridge wouldn’t work, and blowing on the insides usually fixed it. Nothing else in real life is this simple. I have never blown air on a broken toaster and thought that it would work.

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    Sarah Smiley: What PG-13 movies teach us about comforting characters
    Sarah Smiley: What PG-13 movies teach us about...
    By Sarah Smiley • July 23, 2015 2:47 pm

    Through some odd twist of circumstances, Ford, my oldest son, and I were the only ones home for the night. This almost never happens, and now that Ford is almost 15, I decided we should watch a movie – a PG-13 movie – that we normally could not when Ford’s younger brothers are around.

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    Sarah Smiley: All my children are vaccinated. Here’s why.
    Sarah Smiley: All my children are vaccinated. Here’s...
    By Sarah Smiley • July 16, 2015 2:55 pm

    Imagine for a moment that a scientist has created a preventative vaccine-like shot for all types of cancer. But there’s just one catch: the vaccine carries a minuscule risk (say, one adverse reaction for every 40,000 doses given.) Would you do it?

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    When your kid is afraid to go near the water
    When your kid is afraid to go near...
    By Sarah Smiley • July 2, 2015 2:18 pm

    Two of my sons have suffered from a fear of the water, both for good reasons. When Owen was 4, he fell in a neighbor’s pool during a birthday party. He lay face down in the deep end until an attentive grandmother jumped in to get him.

    It would be nearly five more years before Owen would go more than knee-deep into any kind of water, but I never stopped confronting him with the opportunity.

    Yes, “confronting” him. When your child is afraid of water, suggesting that he kayak, go fishing, or Heaven forbid, get in an inner tube at a water park, becomes an all-out confrontation.

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    Dogs in purses among pop culture trends I’ve missed
    Dogs in purses among pop culture trends I’ve...
    By Sarah Smiley • June 18, 2015 1:39 pm

    I realize I’m getting older and that I’ve spent the last 14 years raising children — specifically, boys. I don’t expect to fully understand the Kardashians, One Direction, or earrings that make large, open holes in people’s ears. I’m aware that these things have become part of regular pop culture, and I know of their presence in the same tangential way that I know my neighbor is cooking hamburgers when I smell the charcoal. But I don’t take much time to research beyond that.

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    Sarah Smiley: Consumed by ancestry family research
    Sarah Smiley: Consumed by ancestry family research
    By Sarah Smiley • June 11, 2015 2:16 pm

    I’ve shared before how our family came to Maine seven years ago. The military sent us here after my husband, Dustin, put Maine on our wish list of future duty stations. But why did this California-loving boy put Maine on the list at all? The answer lies with a clan of Smileys who made their home here at the turn of the century.

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    Sarah Smiley: No crying off the baseball field either
    Sarah Smiley: No crying off the baseball field...
    By Sarah Smiley • June 4, 2015 1:43 pm

    Crying is not allowed on the baseball field. You already knew that. But did you know that crying also isn’t allowed off the field, in the concession stand, on the bleachers or in the score box either? I learned the hard way last weekend.

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    ‘Thanking the troops’ didn’t happen for shunned Vietnam vets
    ‘Thanking the troops’ didn’t happen for shunned Vietnam...
    By Sarah Smiley • May 28, 2015 2:39 pm

    Today’s military homecomings are grand events. They are celebrated in person and then again on videos shared on social media and the Internet. They receive positive attention on national television. Troops are greeted at airports with handshakes and, sometimes, prepaid calling cards to get in touch with loved ones.

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    Sarah Smiley: Thoughtful and conscientious son a teenage success story
    Sarah Smiley: Thoughtful and conscientious son a teenage...
    By Sarah Smiley • May 21, 2015 1:41 pm

    Two years ago, my memoir, “Dinner with the Smileys,” exposed with painful transparency my difficulty raising a pre-teen boy. I held nothing back when I wrote about Ford’s attitude, his tendency to slam his bedroom door, and all the ways he broke my heart — over and over again.

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    Sarah Smiley: What the books don’t tell you about teenage boys
    Sarah Smiley: What the books don’t tell you...
    By Sarah Smiley • May 17, 2015 8:00 am

    There isn’t much cuter than a small boy with pudgy hands and wispy hair. One of motherhood’s greatest rewards is the love of a little boy. And then they become teenagers.

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    Question: Is mom always the anchor of the family?
    Question: Is mom always the anchor of the...
    By Sarah Smiley • May 7, 2015 7:07 pm

    While at a stop light the other day, I watched a young mother walk her toddler son to the other side of the street. Although the mother walked swiftly and purposefully, her son skipped and galloped beside her, sometimes in front, sometimes behind her, and all while holding her hand.

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    Why we should all be the Baltimore mom in yellow
    Why we should all be the Baltimore mom...
    By Sarah Smiley • April 30, 2015 3:29 pm

    Last week, in the middle of the Baltimore riots that followed Freddie Gray’s funeral, there was one glimmer of hope, and she came dressed in a yellow tunic and bolero. Like an actual ray of sunshine shouting expletives, Toya Graham pushed through the crowds to get to her son, who was on his way to join the mayhem, and she instantly became both Mom of the Year and an Internet sensation.

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    Navy Wise: Son’s Alice in Wonderland Syndrome brings fear, then knowledge
    Navy Wise: Son’s Alice in Wonderland Syndrome brings...
    By Sarah Smiley • April 26, 2015 9:00 am

    The first time it happened, our son was 5-years old. It was the middle of the night, and we were sound asleep. I woke to the sound of our front door creaking open.

    I elbowed Dustin to wake him up. “I think someone just broke in,” I whispered.

    That’s when the security alarm went off.

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    Getting Free Range children will take guts, groups
    Getting Free Range children will take guts, groups
    By Sarah Smiley • April 16, 2015 2:21 pm

    Not many years ago, I wrote in protest of bringing snacks to kids’ soccer games. I said that making cookies for halftime was ruining my weekend, as was being expected to sit on the sidelines during every practice. I can think of 101 things I’d rather be doing than watching soccer practice.

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    Sarah Smiley.
    A few times the commenters got it wrong
    By Sarah Smiley • April 9, 2015 4:17 pm

    Last month, a local radio show, invited me into the studio to talk about online commenters. This meant that I had to (1) read through months-worth of online comments, and (2) still look in the mirror without feeling fat, stupid, ugly, and arrogant afterward. Because that’s how some commenters describe me.

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    Sarah Smiley and her son Ford.
    When the pursuit is the reward
    By Sarah Smiley • April 2, 2015 2:13 pm

    I was not a straight-A student in high school. Maybe that’s why I can tell you this story. Society only seems to accept success stories from people who have failed first. Except, I never truly failed. I just didn’t try that hard to succeed.

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    Sarah Smiley: Sometimes it’s hard to watch your ‘little ones’ grow up
    Sarah Smiley: Sometimes it’s hard to watch your...
    By Sarah Smiley • March 26, 2015 2:34 pm

    Begin with the end in mind. That’s what the principal said at the orientation for next year’s incoming high school freshmen.

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    There are two sides to every broken bone story
    There are two sides to every broken bone...
    By Sarah Smiley • March 19, 2015 1:44 pm

    Before I begin, I’ll answer the question you will surely ask at the end: No, there is no video (that I’m aware of) of the moment my feet went out from under me and I landed on my backside, breaking my wrist. My children, however, would be happy to describe for you in great detail the whole thing, including how I said, “I’m really good at this” seconds before I fell.

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